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Where To Get Help With Abstinence: Conferences, Life Groups, and Books

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          In the last couple of months I’ve run across a couple of resources that I would’ve liked if I were still abstinent. So, I thought I’d pass them along to you. In my latest video , I talk about the importance of getting help, in your abstinence path. (Lest, you become one of the 96% of Americans that aren’t abstinent.) Obviously, loads of those people don’t want to be abstinent in the first place, but I know some of those people did want to be, but they failed. *sad face emoji*           A couple of conferences that I’ve heard of are the Pinky Promise Conference for Christian Singles, and the Pursuit Conference by Focus on the Family. The first conference is led by Cornelius and Heather Lindsey. If you are trying to be abstinent, and you don’t know about them, you need to! First of all, they’re adorbs, and a very attractive couple. Second, their relationship story is SO GOOD! Both sexually active in the past, then saved th...

Did God Really Tell You He's The One???

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         When I was 18, I was in a relationship that I have no business being in. When I first met him, he didn’t have a car. (It wasn’t a huge deal to me because, I was only 18. Although, he was 2 years older than me.) 2 years later, he still didn’t have a car. Over those 2 years he had a gazillion jobs, because he couldn’t keep one. Something always happened for him to get “unfairly” fired. And when he got mad, he got REALLY mad. He never put his hands on me, but he did talk down to me. And he had a terrifying way of twisting my mind to make it seem like he was right, when he absolutely wasn’t. (If you’d like to hear more personal stories, like this, about me sign up here to get on my Single or Dating email list.)           But when times were good, they were good. He loved to spoil me (when he had money). Lol He made it very known to everyone that he loved me to the core. He loved showing me affection, and was proud of me and o...